I'm trying not to think about the fact that if our agency hadn't screwed up with our dossier so badly, Thalia would probably be home by now. I wanted her home in time for Christmas so much, and I hate knowing that it won't happen. Right now, the best we can hope for is that we'll be able to get there and back before the agency's Hague accreditation expires on January 22nd, otherwise we'll be transferred to another agency, and that possibility scares me to death.
I had a good cry today over the fact that she's not here yet, but tonight I got some pictures of the package of gifts that will be delivered to her next week - a dress, headband, bracelet, coloring book, thumb drive (we're hopeful the orphanage will put all her photos on it before we pick her up), doll, picture of Curtis and me, and a big container of suckers to share with the other kids. That helped me feel a little bit better. I hope she knows somehow how much we love her.
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Monday, December 10, 2012
Joshua's email - 12/10/12
I've been meaning to mention this in my email, but I keep forgetting! There's a kid here named M B, who looks EXACTLY like a 17-year old version of A L!... Haha! He even acts just like him, but less giggly....
Here's the breakdown of this past week:
So this week has been pretty busy as we've been following up with lots of our investigators. Our investigator, B, has kind of stalled a little bit after we taught him the Restoration. Unfortunately, M doesn't want to leave B behind because they're very close, and they both decided they would try to support each other in their decisions. M was WAY SOLID, but now he's kind of getting dragged down now that things in his life are starting to go really well. We're definitely not giving up on them yet, because M knows what he needs to be doing, he just needs to actually do it!
We've also been working hard with K! He was supposed to be baptized on December 1st, but he and his wife got really sick for 3-4 weeks. He finally got better last week, so we were able to visit him and bring him back to speed. He was planning on coming to church yesterday with Brother N, but he called 15 minutes before and sounded like DEATH. So I guess he's sick again....
The good news is that we've been working hard with S, and she's been really involved with the ward. The C family are really really helpful and they let us have lessons at their house with S a few times a week. Last Monday evening, we had a lesson with her and we just followed up with her on church and reading the Book of Mormon. She said she wanted these things to be true, and she had been reading and praying about the Book of Mormon, but she didn't feel like she had received an answer yet. We invited her to continue reading and to pray to know if it's true. We had another lesson with her on Thursday. In the morning, we had planned for our lesson, and we decided to teach the second half of the Plan of Salvation. We knew we had to follow up with her on the Book of Mormon. Elder G explained to me that I only needed to ask one question, "Did you get a chance to read the Book of Mormon?" and that everything else would follow. So I did just that, and she replied, "Yes, and I want to be baptized!" We had been praying to know when to set a baptismal date for S, because we knew she was going to be gone over Christmas and that she would be visiting family, who doesn't agree with her decision to get baptized. So we put it in her court and asked when she wanted to be baptized. We felt strongly about the 15th, and that's when she decided. She said she wants to be baptized as soon as possible! I wish you all could have been there when she told us this, because the Spirit was RIDICULOUS! It felt like a kick to the chest! I don't like writing emails because it's hard to convey how I felt as everything was happening, but just know that it was really awesome, and that Sarah is definitely prepared to be baptized. Now we just have to teach her the rest of the commandments and get her baptism set up for this Saturday. Everything is starting to fall into place! Boom!
Other than that, not a whole lot happened this week. I went on exchanges with Elder C, from Fresno California. He's a Hmong kid who sent in his papers with his friend Elder X from his ward. They both received their calls back at the same time and both got sent to Wisconsin! Crazy! The only difference is that Elder C is here speaking Spanish! He's a really cool kid, and he's very loving. Elder G came home from his leadership meeting and shared some things with me that will help us to become more effective missionaries. It was crazy, because I prayed for him to take some knowledge from the meeting and to share it to benefit the companionship, and that's exactly what he did.
Sunday, we went to the ward's choir practice at 9am. I was really excited to get to sing in the choir with a bunch of other good singers and angelic voices, but it was pretty much just the opposite. Haha! Basically we all sounded like a bunch of howling dogs, but that's okay too.
Anyway, everything has been great here, and I hope everyone is doing well at home. I've been learning a lot from the Book of Mormon lately! We had dinner with a couple, the Ds, and Brother D taught me and Elder G SO much about the scriptures! It was crazy! I thought my head was going to explode! I'm very interested in the scriptures, and I study from them every day! Joseph Smith taught that the Book of Mormon is the most correct of any book on the earth and that a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its teachings than by any other book. I know that to be true. Take advantage of this great gift God has given us and feast upon the words of Christ!
Elder Whicker
The good news is that we've been working hard with S, and she's been really involved with the ward. The C family are really really helpful and they let us have lessons at their house with S a few times a week. Last Monday evening, we had a lesson with her and we just followed up with her on church and reading the Book of Mormon. She said she wanted these things to be true, and she had been reading and praying about the Book of Mormon, but she didn't feel like she had received an answer yet. We invited her to continue reading and to pray to know if it's true. We had another lesson with her on Thursday. In the morning, we had planned for our lesson, and we decided to teach the second half of the Plan of Salvation. We knew we had to follow up with her on the Book of Mormon. Elder G explained to me that I only needed to ask one question, "Did you get a chance to read the Book of Mormon?" and that everything else would follow. So I did just that, and she replied, "Yes, and I want to be baptized!" We had been praying to know when to set a baptismal date for S, because we knew she was going to be gone over Christmas and that she would be visiting family, who doesn't agree with her decision to get baptized. So we put it in her court and asked when she wanted to be baptized. We felt strongly about the 15th, and that's when she decided. She said she wants to be baptized as soon as possible! I wish you all could have been there when she told us this, because the Spirit was RIDICULOUS! It felt like a kick to the chest! I don't like writing emails because it's hard to convey how I felt as everything was happening, but just know that it was really awesome, and that Sarah is definitely prepared to be baptized. Now we just have to teach her the rest of the commandments and get her baptism set up for this Saturday. Everything is starting to fall into place! Boom!
Other than that, not a whole lot happened this week. I went on exchanges with Elder C, from Fresno California. He's a Hmong kid who sent in his papers with his friend Elder X from his ward. They both received their calls back at the same time and both got sent to Wisconsin! Crazy! The only difference is that Elder C is here speaking Spanish! He's a really cool kid, and he's very loving. Elder G came home from his leadership meeting and shared some things with me that will help us to become more effective missionaries. It was crazy, because I prayed for him to take some knowledge from the meeting and to share it to benefit the companionship, and that's exactly what he did.
Sunday, we went to the ward's choir practice at 9am. I was really excited to get to sing in the choir with a bunch of other good singers and angelic voices, but it was pretty much just the opposite. Haha! Basically we all sounded like a bunch of howling dogs, but that's okay too.
Anyway, everything has been great here, and I hope everyone is doing well at home. I've been learning a lot from the Book of Mormon lately! We had dinner with a couple, the Ds, and Brother D taught me and Elder G SO much about the scriptures! It was crazy! I thought my head was going to explode! I'm very interested in the scriptures, and I study from them every day! Joseph Smith taught that the Book of Mormon is the most correct of any book on the earth and that a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its teachings than by any other book. I know that to be true. Take advantage of this great gift God has given us and feast upon the words of Christ!
Elder Whicker
Saturday, December 8, 2012
weekly menu
Qdoba burritos
Pasta with pumpkin sauce (I didn't get to make this last week, so I'm going to make it this week)
I'll be making some sort of dessert on Sunday, but I'm not sure what yet, so I didn't put it on the menu. It'll be something easy and yummy, because come Monday morning, I have got to stop eating like there's no tomorrow! I don't know what it is about this time of year that makes me want to eat everything in sight. Ugh.
Here's our produce list from today:
Grapes
apples (two kinds)
Fuyu persimmons
papaya
oranges
Satsuma tangerines
bananas
pineapple
avocados
yellow squash
mushrooms
broccoli
Romaine lettuce
green leafy lettuce
acorn squash
onions
garlic
radishes
spaghetti squash
bell peppers
And here's what we had left over or that I bought separately:
mushrooms
zucchini
tomatoes
yellow cherry tomatoes
raspberries
blackberries
butternut squash
delicata squash
acorn squash
pears
pomegranates
pummelos
bell peppers
Pasta with pumpkin sauce (I didn't get to make this last week, so I'm going to make it this week)
I'll be making some sort of dessert on Sunday, but I'm not sure what yet, so I didn't put it on the menu. It'll be something easy and yummy, because come Monday morning, I have got to stop eating like there's no tomorrow! I don't know what it is about this time of year that makes me want to eat everything in sight. Ugh.
Here's our produce list from today:
Grapes
apples (two kinds)
Fuyu persimmons
papaya
oranges
Satsuma tangerines
bananas
pineapple
avocados
yellow squash
mushrooms
broccoli
Romaine lettuce
green leafy lettuce
acorn squash
onions
garlic
radishes
spaghetti squash
bell peppers
And here's what we had left over or that I bought separately:
mushrooms
zucchini
tomatoes
yellow cherry tomatoes
raspberries
blackberries
butternut squash
delicata squash
acorn squash
pears
pomegranates
pummelos
bell peppers
Monday, December 3, 2012
Joshua's email - 12/3
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| The district |
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| The illustrious Elder G |
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| That's our boy! |
So this week Elder G and I have been working hard at trying to help our investigators understand and receive a testimony of the Book of Mormon. Sometimes it's difficult trying to figure out exactly how to help them, but we know that it brings blessings. We had lots of appointments set up this week with members to help us teach investigators, and for some reason or another, every one of those appointments got cancelled. Elder G says that the ward has kind of forgotten what it's like to be a part of missionary work since earlier this year a pair of missionaries were very successful. The missionaries afterward didn't work quite as hard and didn't see as much success, so he feels the ward has forgotten a little bit of how to help us and what that feels like. But lately, everyone has been noticing the people we have been bringing to church, and EVERYONE wants to be a part of the work. It's just hard finding times that will work for everyone. We definitely work with what we have though. We're doing our best to help our investigators progress towards baptism.
We also did quite a bit of tracting, and got lots of return appointments from that. We met a lady named E who seems very interested in our message, so we'll definitely be working with her. We also met a guy named V, from Africa, who seems to be interested as well. We set up a return appointment with him the other day and he dodged us. We felt bad, but we left a card with our number on it and decided to try again later. We came back a few times over the next few days, and finally on Saturday night, we were able to catch him. We just wanted to set up another return appointment, but he told us to come in right then. We sat down, planning on teaching him the Restoration, but right off the bat, we knew we had to teach him the Plan of Salvation. It was crazy because he seemed to be saying things that went right along with what the scriptures say, and what we wanted to share with him. He talked about how he felt that he had a purpose in life, but he wasn't sure what it was. We referred to Alma 34:32. After that he explained how blessed he is to be able to have the gift of choosing for himself. We referred to 2 Nephi 2. Afterwards, we talked to him about those labors that we can choose to do to prepare to meet God. We took him to 3 Nephi 27:19-20. After this short 20 minute lesson, we invited him to be baptized. He has a date set for December 29. So we have four baptismal dates right now, and one that is very very close to deciding on a date. V told us that he was diagnosed with cancer, so today he is in the hospital having surgery. Hopefully everything will go smoothly and without complications so that everything can fall into place.
Sarah came to church again yesterday and she has a great desire to learn more. We talked about the Word of Wisdom in Gospel Principles class yesterday, and she was very interested in learning more about that. Tonight we have an appointment with her at a member's house, so we're hoping we can set a baptismal date for her then. She texted us last night and said "Elders, thank you so much for all that you do. :)" So I feel that she really appreciates us and is willing to learn more. She wants to learn more about the Plan of Salvation and about temples. She's pretty golden, as are some of our other investigators.
Anyway, I hope everyone's week was great. We watched the Christmas devotional last night, and that's always really good. Remember the true meaning of Christmas this season - God's perfect gift of His Son. It is through Christ's atoning sacrifice that we can continually repent and progress to become more Christlike, to be able to be clean, to enter into the Kingdom of God. Don't take the Atonement for granted, it is truly one of our greatest gifts.
Elder Whicker
Saturday, December 1, 2012
Weekly menu
Today has been an unusual day because I've only been out of my bedroom for a couple of hours and haven't left the house at all. Starting at about noon, I pulled all the Christmas presents out of our secret hiding place in the attic and sorted them into boxes, one for each person. Then I wrapped everything that will need to be mailed, plus a few extras. I got a nice head start, but I still have hours and hours of wrapping ahead of me. I hate to even think about it! Anyway, because I was doing all that, Curtis went to get our Bountiful Baskets and is working on putting it away as I type.
Here's what we got:
2 box mushrooms
9 lemons
8 green bell peppers
2 cucumbers
4 pomegranate
18 "unhealthy"persimmon (I'm going to make persimmon cake out of them)
4 zucchini
24 bananas (half of them ruined by Beck when he tore them apart)
2 cantaloupe
22 apples
2 onions
2 garlic
17 tomatoes
28 carrots
16 grape fruit
6 broccoli
2 heads lettuce
4 romaine lettuce
2 papaya
And here's what we already had:
blueberries
blackberries
strawberries
raspberries
yellow cherry tomatoes
portabella mushrooms
persimmons
orange, red, and yellow bell peppers
butternut squash
tangerines
granny smith apples
honeydew melon
If anyone wants our Ethiopian recipes from Sunday, just comment or email me and I will send them. We do them from memory, so I don't really have anything written up. Frankly, the only real recipe I'm using this week is the one below, and I'm planning to modify this by adding cashew cream. The Stromboli will be made with homemade pizza dough, jarred pasta sauce, bell peppers, mushrooms, and Daiya mozzarella cheese. I might throw in some veggie pepperoni, too. I'll roll it up and bake it. The curry sauce I'm using is some pre made stuff I picked up at Costco, which just happened to be vegan. It's made with coconut milk and was in the refrigerated section. The stir fry will be made with whatever veggies I have left, and served over rice. My stir fry sauce is water, soy sauce, rice vinegar, ginger, red pepper flakes, garlic and sugar, but I just kind of eyeball everything. Sometimes I add a little cornstarch to thicken it.
The pasta recipe below is from Vegan Unplugged, which I just received this week. If you're LDS and vegan (or anyone else who's vegan and is working on building up a store of food), this is an EXCELLENT resource. Forget storing only hundreds of pounds of dried beans and rice. You can each pretty well (and still vegan!) from your food storage!
Here's what we got:
2 box mushrooms
9 lemons
8 green bell peppers
2 cucumbers
4 pomegranate
18 "unhealthy"persimmon (I'm going to make persimmon cake out of them)
4 zucchini
24 bananas (half of them ruined by Beck when he tore them apart)
2 cantaloupe
22 apples
2 onions
2 garlic
17 tomatoes
28 carrots
16 grape fruit
6 broccoli
2 heads lettuce
4 romaine lettuce
2 papaya
And here's what we already had:
blueberries
blackberries
strawberries
raspberries
yellow cherry tomatoes
portabella mushrooms
persimmons
orange, red, and yellow bell peppers
butternut squash
tangerines
granny smith apples
honeydew melon
If anyone wants our Ethiopian recipes from Sunday, just comment or email me and I will send them. We do them from memory, so I don't really have anything written up. Frankly, the only real recipe I'm using this week is the one below, and I'm planning to modify this by adding cashew cream. The Stromboli will be made with homemade pizza dough, jarred pasta sauce, bell peppers, mushrooms, and Daiya mozzarella cheese. I might throw in some veggie pepperoni, too. I'll roll it up and bake it. The curry sauce I'm using is some pre made stuff I picked up at Costco, which just happened to be vegan. It's made with coconut milk and was in the refrigerated section. The stir fry will be made with whatever veggies I have left, and served over rice. My stir fry sauce is water, soy sauce, rice vinegar, ginger, red pepper flakes, garlic and sugar, but I just kind of eyeball everything. Sometimes I add a little cornstarch to thicken it.
The pasta recipe below is from Vegan Unplugged, which I just received this week. If you're LDS and vegan (or anyone else who's vegan and is working on building up a store of food), this is an EXCELLENT resource. Forget storing only hundreds of pounds of dried beans and rice. You can each pretty well (and still vegan!) from your food storage!
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Joshua's email - 11/27
This week has been great! I've definitely seen a lot of miracles from the Lord, and I know that those, along with trials, have helped me grow and learn how to be a better missionary, and how to be more Christlike. Last week was kind of tough. Elder G and I have been working really hard and getting along great. We had Thanksgiving at a member's house with their family. Some of their family isn't LDS, so Elder G. and I talked to them pretty much all of dinner, and answered lots of questions that they had. The dinner was great, and we both felt great afterwards, thinking over how much we were able to share with the non-members. We have a motto, "If you're not hurting, keep eating," and that motto has definitely given us some ups and downs, especially over Thanksgiving. Haha. I hope everyone else had a great Thanksgiving as well.
We worked really hard over the weekend, and we definitely had some trials to overcome, but we definitely saw the blessings that came from those trials as well. Friday, we had very little success with finding people to teach, and we were both kind of discouraged. We decided to go tract an apartment building before dinner. All of the people rejected us. We had time for one more door before dinner, so I knocked that last one. A HUGE kid in his younger 20's came out. He had an enormous dip in his mouth and piercings in his ears, so right off the bat, I had a feeling that said "He's not going to listen." I shared a little bit of our message with him, and his response took us off-guard. He told us to come in, and, surprised, we had to tell him we only had a couple minutes before we had to leave. We gave him a Book of Mormon and set up an appointment for the next morning, and left. The next day, we went back to his apartment. He wasn't there, but his roommate was. He told us to call M and come back later. Later in the day, M called us back and asked us to come over. We went over at 4pm and taught M and B the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They told us that this is something that they have been talking about and thinking about for a long time. M told us that when we came to the door, it was literally an answer to his prayers. He's had a lot of hard things happen in his life, and he's completely ready to change and come closer to God. After 30 minutes of knowing the two, we invited them to read the Book of Mormon, come to church the next day, and I got the opportunity to invite them both to be baptized. They both accepted. They have a baptismal date set for December 15. We now have 3 baptismal dates set, and about 7 others that we are working really closely with.
Anyway, the next day at church, we were pretty excited. We were supposed to have B, S, T and her kids, and M and B all at church. Br was supposed to come with [a less active member], but for whatever reason, they didn't show up. B is still serious about learning more about the church though, so we'll keep working with her. T's family wasn't able to make it, but they're still trying. Sarah made it, and she already has fellowshippers at church, which is good. B and M came with one of the most solid guys in our Elders quorum. His name's Brother A. He's ridiculously nice, and he's knows everything there is to know about the gospel. So they came with him, and then they sat by us in our church meetings. M could NOT stay awake. We wondered why he couldn't even stay awake when he sounded so sincere about everything we had talked to him about. He literally couldn't even stay awake for 2 minutes. He even snored through a lot of Elders quorum. We found out that he hadn't even gone to bed the night before. From the time that we left, until just before church, he had read over 200 pages of the Book of Mormon. He understands what they were talking about, and he was able to tell us things about the Book of Mormon that even we didn't know. We haven't taught him the Restoration of the gospel yet, so I don't think he understands completely why the Book of Mormon is so important, but he obviously has a great desire to learn more. We're definitely going to be working hard with M and B.
Anyway, I just wanted to share a really short message on gratitude. In Alma 26, it talks about how Ammon and his brothers are just finishing their journeys from their 14-year mission. They had been rejected by many, and even persecuted and tortured, but they continued to work diligently to push the Lord's work forward. Because of their diligence, they were able to convert thousands of the Lamanites. And throughout all of these times, good or bad, they always remembered how God had helped them. They knew that without God, those things wouldn't have been possible. I can't remember which verses exactly, but I believe in verse 8, Ammon praises Heavenly Father as he recognizes the blessings that He had poured over them. His brothers initially believe him to be boasting of his own efforts, but he continues on and says that he knows that God made all those things possible. He talks about how he will praise God forever. That really hit me hard, especially with it being Thanksgiving last week, and Christmas coming up. Remember who gives you blessings, and strive to see those blessings in your lives. I want to invite whoever is reading this to dedicate at least one prayer each day to only thanking God for the things that you've been blessed with in your life. As you do that, you'll feel a greater love for the Savior and Heavenly Father, the same love They have for you. Heavenly Father truly does bless us, especially as we keep His commandments, and sometimes it's only a matter of recognizing those things. He blesses us, so don't forget to thank Him.
Elder Whicker
PS - Thank you KS for giving me the awesome Thanksgiving package! It seriously made my day! The cupcakes were seriously DELICIOUS!!!!! And the blueberry hand sanitizer is RIDICULOUS! THANKS!
Monday, November 26, 2012
ARGH!
I'm trying not to panic. Our adoption agency just called to tell us they are discontinuing their China program once their Hague accreditation expires on January 22nd. They are "merging" with another adoption agency and will continue to do charitable work in China, while our file is transferred to the new agency. They're assuring us everything will go smoothly, but nothing with this agency has gone smoothly. If they hadn't delayed our dossier submission in the first place, we'd be in China and back before any of this takes effect. They're going to ask for our travel approval to be expedited, so *potentially* this could be a good thing. I just can't help being a bit scared. Besides just wanting Thalia home yesterday, if we aren't done by April, our homestudy and fingerprints will have to be redone, and this will cause more delays and huge expense, not to mention the hassle of trying to get Joshua fingerprinted in Wisconsin. Ugh.
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